Does bubbling at Call the Midwife signify a remaining impact of illness,
a descent into sentimentality in my old age or did it touch a very real
truth for me? That's been this weeks question, among others. Maybe it's
all three but I think the small speech around "as a nurse and midwife
it is my role to alleviate pain and suffering", was the part that
especially moved me. It took me to a recall of why my former profession
fulfilled and sustained me for many years. And why I have been so proud
to call myself a nurse even when society still fails to value the
nursing profession.
But it's also been the week when I have read
again that nurses are having training in compassionate care. What can
have happened that we need to retrain people in this when for many that
will have been their initial driver for joining the profession? Is it
failed leadership that values only administrative skills above those of
care and compassion? Is it a culture that promotes organisation centred
care rather than person centred that causes this? Is it a lack of time
or training? Seeing those nurses respond to the compassionate care
training so positively and express how that enhances their job
satisfaction says it all. I have no doubt the patients are reaping the
rewards.
The Quality Strategy for health care in Scotland
places compassionate care at the top of its priorities , with person
centred care at the heart of this. I have been pleased to support work
enabling this to become a reality in Scotland. In many ways facilitating
this shift in culture was one of the reasons I moved to the voluntary
sector , enabling a greater patient voice through advocacy ( like
Breakthrough CAN) and Breakthrough Breast Cancer Service pledge . Also
as Chair of the Long Term Conditions Alliance I know a collective voice
can be a significant driver of change. So when I wistfully remember my
days being called Sister( no not a Nun!) and wonder if I could perhaps
return to nursing at some point when my work here is complete
(mmmmmm.....) perhaps I need a pause to recognise that my role as
Director of Breakthrough Breast Cancer in Scotland is perhaps the most
powerful way to make a difference for many, and not only those with
breast cancer too.
Also in a week when I have called the
breast care nurse for advice I want also to recognise the importance of
the nurse specialist role. People with conditions like breast cancer
and diabetes have for many years seen their care revolutionised by
specialist nursing expertise. That combination of specialist knowledge
alongside great communication skills offers the difference to so many,
enabling them to understand ,accept and get to grips with their new
reality. They are often the unsung heroes, not fitting neatly into boxes
of frontline care but as care shifts from hospitals into community
their role becomes more and more relevant and important. As resources
become even more stretched lets ensure they are properly valued and
protected.
So what made me phone this week? Some pre op
advice really but also a recognition that my worry bug was taking hold.
The 2 am shift had returned with descent into what ifs and surreptitious
forays into google .....my fellow travellers will know this one!
Daylight puts such fears back in the box thankfully and also feeling a
little stronger is helping. On wards and upwards now I hope.
Reasons
to be cheerful. Feeling a little better has to be top of the list. I
fear karaoke with the team is not going to be possible but I hope to get
back next week and enjoy the banter afresh. My daughter is home soon
and we had a real giggle at the clip on TV when she and her colleagues
met Jedward during their regular dog adoption slot in Ireland. And two
of the dogs already have new homes.
But finally this week our scientists have discovered valuable new information about hereditary breast cancer...http://bit.ly/wSv4yR
this information ,on our website too ,brings personalised medicine even
closer and hope for so many in the future. Now that really is a reason
to be cheerful. Thanks so much to all of you who have helped to make
that possible.
This blog is about my thoughts on my own experience of breast cancer and becoming disabled, on self care, my passion for improving health and healthcare and about heartful leadership in all areas of life.
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