When I joined Breakthrough Breast Cancer I looked forward to Fashion
Targets Breast Cancer. Shopping for a good cause has a certain appeal-excuses to buy nice clothes I don't normally need. The fantastic photos
of the celebrities supporting the campaign have offered iconic images
over the years. One that stood out for me was Kylie wrapped in the image
of the target, the emblem for the campaign. Her beauty and fragility in
that moment captured for ever.
I was the same age as Kylie was
when I was diagnosed with breast cancer for the first time. OK I know
that's where the similarities end...my backside will never look like
that! But I have recognised her reluctance to be defined by her cancer
and then her courage when she has acknowledged it too. She hasn't
pretended it didn't have an impact but she has also demonstrated her
beauty and talent are in no way diminished.
This years fashion targets campaign has a focus on mothers and daughters. The stunning
images of Sharon and Kelly Osbourne and Pearl and Daisy Lowe shine out
from poster stands across the UK. As we know Sharon opted for a
bilateral mastectomy after identifying her genetic high risk of breast
cancer. A brave decision which must have had a huge impact on her
daughter too. As part of a BCCEU tweet chat recently I asked the
assistant director of research for Breakthrough Breast Cancer , Julia
Wilson (@jul-wil)what reassurance could she give families in the future.
Her reply was "our commitment we are ready to pick off different types
of breast cancer one by one and stop mothers and daughter dying".
Campaigns
like fashion targets may seem at one level glamorous but that's not what
they are about.....they are to bring much needed funds into this work.
So I will be wearing my support this year again. Here's more detail
about whats on offer.
My family like many others has felt the
impact for mothers and daughters. My step daughter, my daughter and I
did the Edinburgh moonwalk a few years ago, less than a year after my
step daughters mother had died of breast cancer. A poignant midnight
trudge through our beautiful city, our hearts heavy with loss but
strengthened but with that shared purpose. The sight of my son as a
volunteer helper throughout the night brought tears to our eyes, as did
the greeting from their Dad at the end. Fathers, sons as well as
daughters all feel the impact after all.
Reasons to be thankful.
I
will leave you with the image of this particular mother with her
daughter who is thankful everyday still to be here, 19 years after
breast cancer first invaded our lives and also after its impact a second
time. That's the result we want for everyone, so do wear your support,
the money is well invested....in saving lives.
This blog is about my thoughts on my own experience of breast cancer and becoming disabled, on self care, my passion for improving health and healthcare and about heartful leadership in all areas of life.
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Great post Audrey and I love seeing the gorgeous pic of you with your daughter x
ReplyDeleteThank you. It seemed appropriate for this blog.xx
ReplyDeleteEspecially poignant for me Audrey, 26 years since I lost my own Mum to breast cancer. A beautiful pic of you and your daughter. x
ReplyDeleteSo sorry Gina, it never stops having its impact. Thinking of you. Ax
DeleteMy mum had lung cancer at the age of 58 and then took up swimming and swam 2 miles twice a week. At 60 s
ReplyDeleteMum had a mastectomy and my brother and I thought that would be it. Mum then decided to go to Canada to see her brother who she had not heard form got 40 years. Mum was amazing she died at 79 and that day when I saw her in the western she simple said " I am going to die today I hope that's ok!" Took my breat away
What an amazing woman your Mum was. A really great way to remember her. Thanks for sharing her story, very inspiring.
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